Have you noticed how some people tend to work a lot
harder than others and still don’t get enough. In the other hand the people who
don’t seem to push themselves too hard get more money and happiness. Why is
that?
I’m sure you have heard “What you think is what you
attract”. And this is what we preach here, because it’s 100% true. The hard
working people have that picture in their minds that they need to work their
ass off in order to get what they want. This can’t be farther from the truth.
But what they think is what they get, so life makes it even harder for them,
because that is what they are asking for by thinking “Money comes only with
hard work”.
What should we do about this?
First you need to understand that what you think is what
you get ! If in your thoughts you have that positive attitude towards life,
that it’s not hard at all and everything will start to become easy for you.
Second you need to be aware of your thoughts
constantly and when you think of something bad you should think a positive
thought right after that. Or you can use my favorite technique, just say in
your mind after the negative thought “This last sentence is invalid” and carry
on !
Third you may want to clear up your mind from 5 to 15
minutes a day. Something like a meditation, but you can do it with open eyes as
you sit on the couch at home, or when you don’t have anything to do on work.
Just clear your mind from all thoughts – stare at something or just look around
observing without thinking.
Fourth you need to focus on the good things that are
already in your life and be grateful for them. But why ? – you may ask. And the
answer is whatever that you are grateful for, the universe will give you more
of it !
Next post will be about focusing on tasks and goals.